Dating Advice: Why He Doesn't Call or Text
Find out why he didn't call, text, or message you
and what to do about it!
Why He Doesn't Call or Text
Are you confused why the guy you're interested in hasn't contacted you - especially if he said he was GOING TO?
Are you baffled as to why he stopped being in touch - especially 'cause you thought things were going SO GREAT?
Regardless of which situation you're in, the worst feeling is when you keep checking your phone a hundred times to make sure you didn't miss a call, text, email or whatever!
You're probably thinking that something is wrong with your phone 'cause how can he possibly not have said SOMETHING by now!
What does it mean when the guy we care about ignores us? Do we contact him or do we wait to hear from him?
Are you baffled as to why he stopped being in touch - especially 'cause you thought things were going SO GREAT?
Regardless of which situation you're in, the worst feeling is when you keep checking your phone a hundred times to make sure you didn't miss a call, text, email or whatever!
You're probably thinking that something is wrong with your phone 'cause how can he possibly not have said SOMETHING by now!
What does it mean when the guy we care about ignores us? Do we contact him or do we wait to hear from him?
Why Hasn't He Called or Texted?
So what's going on? Why hasn't he called or typed something?
Could he really be that busy? Did he lose your number?
Negative and Negative.
To first understand why you're not hearing from the guy, you first have to understand WHY guys contact girls in the first place.
If he is interested in getting to know YOU, or if he still has potential interest in YOU, he WILL call.
If you're not hearing from him, he's just not THAT into you! Sorry.
You're probably wondering what you did wrong to have him allergic to his phone.
A number of possibilities exist and no matter how much you try and analyze it all, it's not worth stressing out about.
Because it could be any number of things...
If he asked for or you provided your contact details first, he may never have even had the intention of contacting you in the first place. -- Maybe he just wanted an ego stroke. Who knows?
There is no excuse in the world for a guy when he really wants to talk to a woman. He knows this.
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Could he really be that busy? Did he lose your number?
Negative and Negative.
To first understand why you're not hearing from the guy, you first have to understand WHY guys contact girls in the first place.
If he is interested in getting to know YOU, or if he still has potential interest in YOU, he WILL call.
If you're not hearing from him, he's just not THAT into you! Sorry.
You're probably wondering what you did wrong to have him allergic to his phone.
A number of possibilities exist and no matter how much you try and analyze it all, it's not worth stressing out about.
Because it could be any number of things...
If he asked for or you provided your contact details first, he may never have even had the intention of contacting you in the first place. -- Maybe he just wanted an ego stroke. Who knows?
There is no excuse in the world for a guy when he really wants to talk to a woman. He knows this.
o
Should I Call or Text Him?
If you are wondering if you should call, text or email him, it would be best to either WAIT a bit more to see if he will initiate contact first, or just let it GO.
However, being in similar situations over time, sometimes I just can't shake the feeling off. I have to do something.
In this case, I would just do a HAPPY, light, positive and flirty text or message (a call is too direct, and it won't help if he's in the middle of something).
If you come across agitated, annoyed, frustrated, upset, mad or any other negative emotion, don't initiate contact. It won't work in your favor.
Don't ask to see him or question why you haven't heard from him.
You have to come across like the world doesn't revolve around him. It doesn't! He is just a small addition to your already happy and busy life, and life goes on with or without him.
However, being in similar situations over time, sometimes I just can't shake the feeling off. I have to do something.
In this case, I would just do a HAPPY, light, positive and flirty text or message (a call is too direct, and it won't help if he's in the middle of something).
If you come across agitated, annoyed, frustrated, upset, mad or any other negative emotion, don't initiate contact. It won't work in your favor.
Don't ask to see him or question why you haven't heard from him.
You have to come across like the world doesn't revolve around him. It doesn't! He is just a small addition to your already happy and busy life, and life goes on with or without him.
When Will I Hear From Him?
Who knows when and if you will...
Perhaps you know from experience that it's best not to show him you care more for HIM than he does for you.
And that's what calling him does - he knows he has you. This doesn't necessarily work in your favor.
It's no big secret that guys like the chase and when you get in touch with him first, he doesn't get a chance to desire you or miss you.. You rob him of the excitement.
The best thing to do is to give it a bit of time. (I know it can seem like forever when you are eager to hear from him!)
What this does is it gives him a chance to wonder about you. He will wonder whether you're still interested in him and this is a good thing. It will make him MISS you. It also give him a chance to DESIRE you.
You will feel much BETTER when you hear from him first! And you know this.
But don't act too excited or filled with relief when you do finally hear from him. ;) And definitely don't give him heck. It's best to act like you didn't even notice, 'cause time flies when you're having fun, right?! :)
Perhaps you know from experience that it's best not to show him you care more for HIM than he does for you.
And that's what calling him does - he knows he has you. This doesn't necessarily work in your favor.
It's no big secret that guys like the chase and when you get in touch with him first, he doesn't get a chance to desire you or miss you.. You rob him of the excitement.
The best thing to do is to give it a bit of time. (I know it can seem like forever when you are eager to hear from him!)
What this does is it gives him a chance to wonder about you. He will wonder whether you're still interested in him and this is a good thing. It will make him MISS you. It also give him a chance to DESIRE you.
You will feel much BETTER when you hear from him first! And you know this.
But don't act too excited or filled with relief when you do finally hear from him. ;) And definitely don't give him heck. It's best to act like you didn't even notice, 'cause time flies when you're having fun, right?! :)
Get Him To Call or Text YOU
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